NB. This is a revision of a 2015 homily. . .
27th
Sunday OT
Fr.
Philip Neri Powell, OP
St.
Dominic Church, NOLA
Uncomfortable
truths do not go away simply b/c we harden our hearts against them.
Reality does not yield to argument or whining. Truth is truth; the
Real is real, and we are thrown into both and forced to deal with
each as best we can. However, better than most, we Catholics are
equipped to confront and thrive in the truth of the real b/c we know
and believe that God our Father is Love. He created us in love;
redeemed us in love; and He brings us back to Him in love. Our daily
reality – given and unavoidable – is soaked through with the
abiding presence of Love Himself. Also given and unavoidable. God's
presence does not guarantee us that we will never come to harm, or
that all of our works will prosper, or that we will always be happy.
What His presence does guarantee is everything we do and say is given
the weight of eternity when we work and speak in His name for His
glory. With our hearts and minds firmly focused on our lives in
Christ, we are free to do the holy work we have been given to do.
Reality does not yield to argument or whining. Nor does it change b/c
we call it something else or b/c secular laws demand that it change.
“God
made [man] male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his
father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become
one flesh.” A union of one flesh can never be divided.
This
is not how the Pharisees understand marriage. To test Jesus, they ask
him, “Is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?” The answer
to this question is, “Yes, it's lawful.” But Jesus wants to know
if divorce is right. At his request, the Pharisees repeat Moses' law
on divorce – a simple matter of the husband writing a bill of
divorce for his wife. Jesus says to this, “Because of the hardness
of your hearts he wrote you this commandment.” He then quotes
Genesis – “two become one flesh” – and concludes, “Therefore
what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” Here
we have an uncomfortable truth that does not go away simply b/c we
harden our hearts against it. Here we have a reality that does not
yield to argument or whining, a reality that does not bend b/c we
choose to give it a different name. Moses allowed divorce b/c the
hearts of men were hardened against the gifts of marriage, hardened
to the possibilities to be found in the “mutual gift of self.”
Because they would not understand the indissoluble reality of
marriage taught in Scripture, Moses gave them a way out. Our Lord
knows that though we often fail, we are able – with his grace –
to enter the covenant of marriage and thrive.
With
the grace of the sacrament and the support of the Church, any
marriage can thrive. Notice I did not say “any marriage can be
perfect” or “no marriage will ever have problems.” Any marriage
can thrive b/c the foundation of marriage is the divine love of
Christ for his Church. What obscures or blocks God's love from
helping a marriage thrive? In Moses' day it was probably the fact
that the wife was more or less the property of the husband. Or the
“wife's failure” to produce a male heir. Or some economic
difficulty. In our own day, the obstructions are more subtle but no
less destructive. Is the marriage kept barren through the use of
artificial contraception? Or worse still, abortion? Does the easy
availability of no-fault divorce make every disagreement potentially
fatal to the marriage? Somehow, we've convinced ourselves that we can
alter the reality of marriage by judicial fiat. When marriage can
mean whatever we want it to mean, when does it come to mean nothing
at all? With technology and gadgets, how much harder is it to avoid
the temptations of adultery and fornication? All of these and others
can obscure God's love in a marriage, they can. . .but
only if the husband and wife forget that God forms the foundation of
their union. Only if they forget that marriage is for the stability
of the family and the salvation of their souls.
In
rejecting Moses' “get out of marriage free” rule, Jesus isn't
setting up an impossible rule or trapping couples in hopelessly
unhappy marriages. He is pointing us to the hard, unchangeable
reality that sacramental marriage is a sign of his love for his bride
the Church, a love that cannot change b/c the Church is his flesh –
his flesh and blood joined permanently with ours. The baptized cannot
be unbaptized. The confirmed cannot be unconfirmed. The ordained
cannot be unordained. And the married cannot be unmarried. This is
Good News b/c it means that no matter what comes, Christ is with us.
He is always with us.
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