23rd Sunday OT
Fr. Philip Neri Powell, OP
Our Lady of the Rosary, NOLA
Audio File
Fr. Philip Neri Powell, OP
Our Lady of the Rosary, NOLA
Audio File
On truth-telling, Polish poet,
Czesław
Miłosz, said, “In
a room where people unanimously maintain a conspiracy of silence, one
word of truth sounds like a pistol shot.”* To draw attention to
yourself – fire a pistol in a silent room. Or, fire that pistol in
a room full of noisy people but be prepared to face the angry
consequences. Nowadays, anytime the Church speaks to a controversial
social or moral issue – no matter how gentle or persuasive her
words – it's as if she has pulled the trigger on a hand-cannon and
her enemies run screaming as if fatally wounded. One word of truth
spoken in a conspiracy of silence, or even to a conspiracy of racket
and theater, just one word of truth can break that conspiracy's hold
on it victims. Jesus tells his disciples to tell each other the
truth, whatever that truth may be, tell it – one to another, one to
many, and, finally, one to all. It is no easy thing to be the one who
fires off the pistol of truth among those who want nothing more than
to be left in silence. But if that silence is hiding a lie, a deadly
lie, then the trigger must be pulled. The question for the one who
would pull the trigger is this: why are you
telling this
truth
to this
person at
this time?
Fraternal correction – inside and outside the Church – must
always be done in a spirit of love and mercy and with a eye keenly
focused on one's own faults.
Way
back in the olden days, it was considered a work of mercy to
“admonish the sinner.” Warning a sinner that he/she is sinning
was thought to be a merciful act, an act of concern for the eternal
salvation of another's soul. Admonishments from the pulpit were
frequent and could be quite fiery. No pastor wanted to be thought of
as “soft on sin.” The caricature of the blustery Irish pastor
haranguing his poor flock on the evils of short skirts, rock music,
and communist infiltrators is Hollywood stock and trade, an image
that many fallen away Catholics of a certain age still use to excuse
their distance from the Church. No doubt there were priestly excesses
in naming and shaming sinners, but those excesses (such as they were)
were replaced all too quickly with another excess – an excess of
laxity that has left the Church in much of Europe and the U.S. with a
pathetic moral legacy, up to and including the scandal of clerical
sexual abuse and the on-going scandal of dissent from the apostolic
faith. Our unwillingness to name and confront sin among our own has
left us w/o the moral authority to speak to our culture, a culture
that desperately needs to hear – in
love and mercy
– that there is a livelier Way, a truer Way of being a better human
being.
Like
most successful cultural revolutions, the revolution the Church needs
to restore her moral authority will come “from below,” from the
pews not the pulpit or the bishop's chair or a balcony at the
Vatican. The revolution we need is a revolution in holiness. Not just
another diocesan program or weekend retreat scheme or a new religious
order. The clear and unflinching message that Jesus delivers to his
disciples is that we are all responsible to one another for one
another for our individual and collective holiness, and it is a
dereliction of our Christian duty to see or hear sin – our own or
someone elses – and not work overtime to help the sinner find
repentance. This is not a license to snoop, tattle-tale, gossip, or
become a busy-body. It is a call to take seriously the truth that
individual sins and collective sins can wreck utter devastation on a
family, a parish, a city, or a nation. And that when one member of
the body is sick or injured, the whole body suffers. If the Church is
weak right now, it's not b/c God has failed to strengthen us; it's
b/c we have failed – laity, clergy, religious – to receive His
strength; we have failed to bear up under our responsibilities to
fraternally correct our wayward brothers and sisters. And to be
corrected in turn.
The
pistol shot that Miłosz
spoke about, that startling crack of truth let loose among the
conspirators of silence, it draws attention, scrunity. Maybe too much
attention, the wrong kind of scrutiny. Speaking up to speak an
unspoken or forgotten truth will turn heads and the investigation
begins. Who are you to say such a thing? Why would you say that? Why
do you hate me, us, them? Oh, so you're perfect? These are questions
designed to silence the pistol shot of truth, questions that attempt
to undermine the truth by undermining the truth-speaker. Firing that
pistol takes courage and strength in abundance; it takes clarity in
purpose and purity in motive. We cannot wags fingers at our
neighbor's dirty house while our own house is filthy. When the pistol
is fired and the noisy room drops into silence and all heads turn to
you in anger ready to accuse, your holiness doesn't have to be
perfect (it can't be yet), but your motive for firing – why you let
that round go – needs to be as pure as a baby's baptismal gown. If
you fire that pistol for any reason other than love and mercy, to
show your love for the sinner and God's mercy, then do not be
surprised to find yourself ignored, confronted, or even worse,
abused. Hypocrisy is a nasty public sin.
So,
how do we avoid hypocrisy while doing our Christian duty? Paul,
as usual, gives us sound advice: “Owe nothing to anyone, except to
love one another.” Owe nothing to anyone, meaning owe no one a debt
in sin. The only debt we should owe one another is the debt of love,
the obligation to will the Good for one another. If all I owe you and
you owe me nothing except love, then offering one another fraternal
correction is the gift of holiness, the gift of drawing one another
back onto the narrow Way of Christ. Knowing that you are wandering
off the Way and letting you do so is not me just
minding my own business;
it's not who
am I to judge?;
it's not well,
I'm not perfect either.
It's standing by and watching a brother or sister in Christ slowly
destroy themselves through disobedience. Sin blinds, it makes us
stupid and reckless. Would you watch a child play in the middle of
I-10 at rush hour? Or carry around a loaded gun in the Quarter during
Madri Gras? Of course not! Why would we then watch a brother or
sister carry on in sin, knowing the devastation barreling down upon
them? We owe one another a debt of love, an obligation to do the Good
(the Best) for one another: when one member of the body is sick, the
whole body is sick. Correction is a cure.
Fraternal
correction is indeed a cure for what ails the Church. And I am under
no illusion that fraternal correction is easy. Of all the tasks our Lord gives us, this one is
among the hardest. It requires us to defy our cultural training to
mind our own business. It makes us confront our own motivations for
speaking up. It leaves us open to retaliation and scrutiny. It sounds
like judgmentalism and moral finger-wagging. But the failure to
fraternally correct a falling brother or sister would be far worse
than the potential embarrassment of speaking up. We are responsible
to one another for one another for our individual and collective
holiness. With a heart made pure by genuine love, let loose that shot
of truth. You may fail to provoke repentance, but you will have
succeeded in breaking open the conspiracy of silence, the conspiracy
of sin.
*
Nobel laureate speech, 1980
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