27th Sunday OT
Fr. Philip Neri Powell, OP
Our Lady of the Rosary, NOLA
Uncomfortable
truths do not go away simply b/c we harden our hearts against them.
Reality does not yield to argument or whining. Truth is truth; the
Real is real, and we are thrown into both and forced to deal with
each as best we can. However, better than most, we Catholics are
equipped to confront and thrive in the truth of the real b/c we know
and believe that God our Father is Love. He created us in love;
redeemed us in love; and He brings us back to Him in love. Our daily
reality – given and unavoidable – is soaked through with the
abiding presence of Love Himself. Also given and unavoidable. God's
presence does not guarantee us that we will never come to harm, or
that all of our works will prosper, or that we will always be happy.
What His presence does guarantee is everything we do and say can be
given the weight of eternity if we work and speak in His name for His
glory. With our hearts and minds firmly focused on our lives in
Christ, our hands and feet are free to do the holy work we have been
given to do. Uncomfortable truths do not go away simply b/c we
harden our hearts against them. Reality does not yield to argument or
whining.
Earlier
today in Rome, the Holy Father opened the 2015 Synod of Bishops. The
synod Fathers are gathered to address “The
Vocation and Mission of the Family in the Church and the Contemporary
World.” This is the conclusion to last year's controversial synod
where it appeared
– for a moment – that a faction in the synod had maneuvered the
Fathers into recommending that the Church dilute her ancient
teachings on marriage, divorce, and same-sex relationships. That
faction was exposed and its contentious mid-synod report was
withdrawn and amended to better reflect the actual recommendations of
the whole
synod. Between last year's synod and this year's, many of the synod
Fathers have published books, articles, and interviews variously
defending the Church's tradition; attacking her tradition; or calling
for modest reform of the tradition. A few months ago, Pope Francis
reformed the annulment process, making the long, expensive ordeal
shorter and cheaper. Some applauded. Some booed. Some said, “About
time!” Others said, “Catholic divorce is here!” In his homily
this morning, the Holy Father said this, “This is God’s dream for
his beloved creation: to see it fulfilled in the loving union between
a man and a woman, rejoicing in their shared journey, fruitful in
their mutual gift of self.”
This
is not how the Pharisees understand marriage. To test Jesus, they ask
him, “Is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?” The answer
to this question is, “Yes, it's lawful.” But Jesus wants to know
if divorce is right. At his request, the Pharisees repeat Moses' law
on divorce – a simple matter of the husband writing a bill of
divorce for his wife. Jesus says to this, “Because of the hardness
of your hearts
he wrote you this commandment.” He then quotes Genesis – “two
become one flesh” – and concludes, “Therefore what God has
joined together, no human being must separate.” Here we have an
uncomfortable truth that does not go away simply b/c we harden our
hearts against it. Here we have a reality that does not yield to argument
or whining. Moses allowed divorce b/c the hearts of men were hardened
to the gifts of marriage, hardened to the possibilities found in the
“mutual gift of self.” Because they would not understand the
indissoluble nature of marriage taught in Scripture, Moses gave them
a way out. Our Lord knows that though we often fail, we are able –
with his grace – to enter the covenant of marriage and thrive.
With
the grace of the sacrament and the support of the Church, any
marriage can thrive. Notice I did not say “any marriage can be
perfect” or “no marriage will ever have problems.” Any marriage
can thrive b/c the foundation of marriage is the divine love of
Christ for his Church. What obscures or blocks God's love from
helping a marriage thrive? In Moses' day it was probably the fact
that the wife was more or less the property of the husband. Or the
wife's failure to produce a male heir. Or some economic difficulty.
In our own day, the obstructions are more subtle but no less
destructive. Is the marriage kept barren through the use of
artificial contraception? Or worse still, abortion? Does the very
real threat of no-fault divorce make every disagreement potentially
fatal to the marriage? Somehow, we've convinced ourselves that we can
alter the nature of marriage by judicial fiat. When marriage can
mean whatever we want it to mean, when does it come to mean nothing
at all? With technology and gadgets, how much harder is it to avoid
the temptations of adultery and fornication? All of these and others
can
obscure God's love in a marriage, they can.
. .but only if the husband and wife forget that God forms the
foundation of their union. Only if they forget that marriage is for
the stability of the family and the salvation of their souls.
For
the next three weeks, we will be hearing news from Rome about the
synod on the family. We will hear reports that sound like a political
nominating convention. The conservatives are winning! BOO! The
progressives are winning! BOO! We'll hear about how the Pope is
letting this thing run wild, and how the media is lying to us about
the proceedings. We'll hear from the lobbying groups – the gay and
lesbian group, the divorced moms group, the remarried dads group, the
stick in the mud traditionalists – everyone will have an opinion
and an agenda. There's only one opinion and agenda that really
matters here: God's. And Scripture has spoken eloquently on the
subject, “God
made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his
father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become
one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh.” One man, one
woman, complementary, joined by God again
into one flesh. What God has joined together, no man can tear apart.
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